Remove FEAR and SELF-DOUBT! – King Joseph

The two major obstacles to success and achievement are “fear” & “doubt”.

This is why the average number of times that people try to achieve a new goal is less than one. As soon as they think of the goal, these fears and doubts overwhelm them and like a bucket of water on a small fire, extinguish their desire completely.

Here’s my candid advise, this 2017, try all you can to replace these negative emotions of “FEAR” and “SELF-DOUBT” with positive emotions of “COURAGE” and “SELF-CONFIDENCE” only then can you achieve your goal(s) with unexpected speed.

Reference Quote: “The person interested in #SUCCESS has to learn to view FAILURE as a healthy, inevitable part of the process of getting to the TOP.” – Joyce Brothers

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SAFE OUR WOMEN! – King Joseph

Safe Our Nation…

WRITER: King Joseph
Language Used: SEL (for all)

I wonder why I’ve not seen/heard anyone talked about this.

I was going to Obalende from Ikorodu recently and I saw a lady inside the bus… And I was like omg!!!

Wow! What a very naturally and stunningly beautiful fair a lady!

Hey! Please get this, I can still remember vividly how many fair women I have dated (in the past) just with lesser fingers-count…so, I really do not admire them as much as dark ladies. Black is beauty, most agreed!

But, reverse was the case with this fair and naturally beautiful a female Conductor as she possesses a beauty to behold!

Oh! Remembering the title of this write-up, I beg you permit me to say; despite, my strong self-believe and pride, (that which I think in every man, there is) I admire, love and respect women a lot. Especially the ones like the beautiful Lady (Conductor) that I saw in that TATA Bus.

Now, get my message clearly, I am not condemning her or her job. I seriously appreciate hard-working and courageous women, because, my Mum is one.

I like more, women, especially young ladies from this planet…and generation, who are always ready to go out of their ways – shame shame and do other kind of jobs/works, to earn living and become someone in life, rather than selling their bodies or stealing to survive…with silly excuses.

I want to believe you all know how hard these Conductors (Agbero/Ape’ro) work, and loudly they have to shout to get passengers in their respective Buses?
How much sweat, how dirty and rough the bulk of them look?
Well, I know you would say; “after all, they’re at work” yes they are, but don’t you also have one you do?
Is that how you look at your own work place too…oh, you say?

Anyway, that is not my point. I ran after the moving bus, (you know as e dey go for we Lasgidi nah…) for which I was hearing different Lagos ‘tarmac’ slangs like: “Ketu, Ojota, Anthony, Oshodi Eko” repeatedly.
Note: I’d intended joining the LAMATA “Blue” Bus, initially.

The voice was this sweet thick voice of a young lady, but I never noticed well, because she was backing me while I hurriedly hopped in the bus, so I don’t miss it…that na we lasgidi way o, and we don dey used to am sha, agreed (tough, I’m tired of it already, I can’t wait to get a good ride as soon as possible by the grace of God.)

Hmmm…my mouth was left ajar, upon seeing the “face” ‘before’ the “Back” I saw while jumping into the bus. I felt even sadder when she got to my side while collecting fares from the Passengers.

My goodness!!! I interjected. You just needed to see how charmingly beautiful she looks…she’s in her early twenties, I guess. Young you say, right?
Yes, what a young, hard-working, ambitious she must be too, I assume!

Meanwhile, the first question that came to my mind was; “why chose to be an “Agbe’ro” (Conductor) amongst other better jobs for a young and very beautiful girl like her around?

Only then, did I remember that, there’s no good job (lack of employment) in the country.
And the few that are available are base on man-know-man, kick-backs (males) and “let’s meet at ‘Scratch My Back I Scratch Yours’ Hotel” (females). Hmm.

Worst still, Sex Hawking, Fraud and Robbery and obviously, she “the Conductor” prefers what she’s doing to any of the aforementioned! Hmm.

Perhaps, she’s only protecting her body for her future husband, amidst the alarming rate of lack employment, ever-growing rate of prostitution; which has been repackaged with different names like: “Olosho,” “Runs Girls” etc…even though all of us know sey asewo (sex-hawker, otherwise referred to by me as Body/Dignity Trader) na asewo. What a life! Sister, that is God’s Temple you are trading for money that can not bring you true HAPPINESS in life. So get it right!

Throughout the journey, I was just staring at this young lady, definitely not lusting after her body, but appreciating her courage and strong spirit, while simultaneously appreciating her natural glowing beauty, despite the stress and sweats all over her, couple with the deformity in nature and character and look from the “job,” imagining the amount of “GREATNESS” in her and feeling pity for her…hmm.

That moment, I prayed to God: “Oh Lord please, regardless, do not allow this “beauty” waste away and make her ” destiny Helper” start locating her starting from that moment in Jesus Name.”

Immediately after solemnly rendering the prayers to God on her behalf, I remembered one of my favorite quotes and ‘take-serious’ beliefs in life, which is; “every encounter/meeting in this life is divine and for a very good purpose, either God wants you to gain/learn something from that person or the person from you.” – King Joseph

Just then! It occurred to me that, I could also be one of the destiny Helpers she needs in life, hence I decided to give her my complementary Card, (upon alighting from the bus), I asked her to please give me a call whenever she feels like changing her kind of job for better offer…

Although, I asked myself if I have that capacity to help her out of such job “bus conductor”, in which so many women, both old and young have ‘unwanted-ly’ (add it to your dictionary) found themselves doing, just to survive the increasing hardship in this country.

But, something kept convincing me that I could do it…through my “Connections” et al, even if I am not (financially) in that position to assist/help her. So, I took a step towards changing her “job” for her…
Here, I end this part of the story.

However, with this new trend of our young women resolving into conducting for commuters, some driving Keke NAPEP, and even Danfo, they may start loosing more values in out society, amongst host of other demerits like unsettled home et al, if the general Public and our government really do not look into it as soon as possible. And come to think of it, from the look of things, our government seem to be pleased with this unheard-of menace, seeing their women/mothers engaging themselves in such men-like works.
I thought they say when you empower women, you safe a Nation?
Then why our government neglecting this fact and forcing our women to do works like these in a country like ‘Nigeria’? This should be entirely discouraged! It won’t help change anything better!

Yeah! Our Celebrities and concerned Nigerians are trying their best by coming up with and introducing lots of “Women Empowerment” programs, workshops, seminars and even entertainment events to further enhance the chances of saving our Nation. Like they say; “Empower a Woman, Safe a Nation!” – Anonymous.
“Empower the young, especially the female ones, secure the Future.” – King Joseph.

PLEASE, I AM SOLICITING FOR OUR WOMEN, WE NEED MORE EMPOWERMENT (with selfless criteria…the ones for all to benefit from) PROGRAMS in our SOCIETY!

Personally, I do not think they belong to such labor market.
Time for our Churches, Mosques, more Celebrities, Elites, Politicians, Federal Ministries, Commissions, Federal Government, State Governments, Local Government and Wards, NGOs, able Individuals and all Concerned Nigerians to put up women empowerment programs more, quarterly or even annually (to start with), to take our women off the streets vice versa.

To be continued…

GOD BLESS OUR WOMEN!
GOD BLESS OUR MOTHERS!!
GOD BLESS NIGERIA!!!

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ADENUGA, BLESSING LIVES WITH GLOWORLD! – King Joseph


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I have subscribed to virtually all the Network Providers in Nigeria, but, believe me, none has served it’s Subscriber as much as this Network Provider @globacommlimited.
Hence, one of the many reasons I am in love with and would always appreciate, celebrate and pray for Dr Mike Adenuga, not because he’s a Nigerian alone, but because he’s proven to be a patriotic One with his people at heart, despite being a Business Man.

Dr Mike Adenuga has indeed shown his self to be a true Son of this country and an African with the only mission to BETTER LIVES (Nigerians/Africans) and CELEBRATE with even “MORE” REWARD for THEM still.

He’s distinguished his self from these kinds of rich men and self-Leaders that fill up the highest SPACES in this country and africa at large…
I want you to know, Sir, that you have fulfilled so many peoples’ dreams with this your own dream “GLOWORLD”, not only with the lots of benefits we the Subscribers get from the network. But, with your non-stop immense contribution to the development of this Great Nation through your unequal supports to Nigerian Music Industry (and Africa at large), Nollywood, the Oil Sector, not to talk of our Football and Sport Sector generally.

God bless you more, Sir.

Just imagine, I had to be paying for monthly subscription with my former network provider on my an Android mobile 2ce daily for days in a roll that I was forced to remove the SIM (with which to me I think it’s one of their ways to extort us “Nigerians”), and I angrily broke it into pieces, I went in feeling frustrated; that was after several calls to their Customer Care Agents (on phone calls and in Offices) with no corrective solutions.

At last! The thought of this network of “alarubarika” after a deep thought of a better SIM to buy came to me, so, I hurriedly went outside again to buy GLO SIM card, registered and activated…sighs, what a great relieve!

Now, I don’t even use Spectranet anymore, to connect to my online WORLD; with just #3000.00 I am good to browse the globe and work round-the-clock with unusual rest of mind 💃💃💃💃!

Moreover, not to talk of the huge airtime bonus (to call any network) I get for every recharge which none of them can give, tahhh! If I hear sey dem fit do am like GLO Network. You won’t believe that, I now talk like the President Son, especially when I’m on a call with “Ekah Joseph” (Iya Joseph) my Mum and my “Ayanfe.”

Now, I can say I rule my world with GLO WORLD!

So, wetin you still dey wait for, my brodas and sistas? Abegiii, sharpaly go get your own Glo SIM today, make you too for start dey jolificate with me and the rest reasonable Subscribers, especially if you know sey you be typical omo Nija.

GLOBAL COMMUNICATION LIMITED @globacommlimited na d confam from we own, by we own and for we own and the world!

WHO IS MIKE ADENUGA?

Biography:

Adenuga means different things to different people; he is a Husband, Father, team Leader, role Model, Destinies Helpers, an Entrepreneur, etc.

Dr Mike Adenuga Jr was given birth to by Juliana Oyindamola Adenuga (Nee Onashile of Okesopin, Ijebu Igbo) is a business woman of royal Ijebu descent.on April 29, 1953 is the Nigerian Chairman Chief Executice Officer of Globacom. He is considered the richest man in Oyo State.
Oloye Adenuga, a school Teacher, his father

Adenuga ascend to wealth and associated popularity is an interesting story. His resolve to succeed despite all odds started when, while in United states of america, he worked as a taxi cab driver and security guard to support himself at university.

Mike Adenuga was born on April 29, 1953, Michael Adeniyi Isola Adenuga got his secondary school education at the Ibadan Grammar School, Ibadan, Oyo State, before proceeding to the North-Western University in Oklahoma and Pace University, New York, both in the usa where he studied business administration.

At age 26, Adenuga became a millionaire with connections in high places. With his unique flair for risks and absolute tenacity of purpose, quickly he started making profits in billions of dollars. He is the owner Equitorial Trust Bank and Consolidated Oil, which performs crude oil drilling, refining along with marketing.

His 1st shot into the consciousness of Nigerians was when his company, Consolidated Oil became the first indigenous company to strike crude in December 1991. He lately venture into the telecommunications market. With his Communications Investment Limited, CIL, he was issued a conditional licence in 1999 and frequencies to operate the Global System of Mobile Communications (GSM). The licence was later revoked. Once again, when in 2002, the government through the Nigerian Communications Commission (NCC), organised new auction for the GSM licence, the CIL participated and was one of the four that won the bid. He paid the $20 million mandatory deposit.

However, in the process of effecting the release of the balance payment of $265 million, the corporation was adjudged to have failed to pay within stipulated time. CIL lost both the licence and $20 million deposit. He later went on to bid for the Second National Operator (SNO) licence, and deposited another $20 million. This time around, he was lucky.

He won the bid in August 2002 through his Globacom Limited. The SNO has a wider range of operations as Globacom has the right to operate as a national carrier, operate digital mobile lines, serve as international gateway for telecommunications in the country and operate fixed wireless access phones.
Adenuga’s estate business and company shares traverse several countries in Western European countries, North America and the Middle-East.


Dr Michael Adeniyi Isola Adenuga

So, I say, Dr Mike Adenuga, THANK and God bless YOU, SIR!
GLOWORLD, Thank You and continue Ruling!!
GOD BLESS NIGERIA / AFRICA!!!
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Guys, Be Advised: Your P*nis Will Not Function Properly If You Don’t Have Enough of This Vitamin

A new research has shown that the p*nis will not function properly without the presence of a particular vitamin in the body.

Improve your p*nis performance and sexual stamina with one supplement.
 
Not being able to get it up is a common problem, but it means you could be suffering from erectile dysfunction (ED).
 
We all know that popping a little blue pill works as an antidote for a floppy penis but you might actually be lacking a natural erection-boosting nutrient.
 
Lads with low levels of the sunshine are more likely to have penis performance issues, as getting more vitamin D can boosts your erection and performance between the sheets. 
 
ED affects half of all men between the ages of 40 and 70, but researchers from the University of Milan in Italy found that having a vitamin D deficiency can increase your risk of erection issues.
 
The team tested 143 erectile dysfunction sufferers and discovered nearly half of them had low levels of the sunshine vitamin and only a fifth had optimal levels.
 
Men with the most extreme cases of ED had 24% less vitamin D than lads with mild erection problems.
 
But this wasn’t the only study to notice a link between trouble getting it up and the natural nutrient.
 
Scientists at Johns Hopkins University studied 3,400 healthy Americans and those who had a vitamin D deficiency were nearly a third more likely to have issues with getting hard.
 
Study author Dr. Erin Michos said: “Vitamin D deficiency is easy to screen for and simple to correct with lifestyle changes that include exercise, dietary changes, vitamin supplementation and modest sunlight exposure.

“Checking vitamin D levels may turn out to be a useful tool to gauge ED risk. The most relevant clinical question then becomes whether correcting the deficiency could reduce risk and help restore erectile dysfunction.”
 
If boosting your erection wasn’t reason enough to stock up on vitamin D, health officials advised today that everyone should be swallowing the supplements in autumn and winter.
 
You can get a little bit of vitamin D from foods like oily fish, eggs and cereals but for most people the bulk of their vitamin D comes from sunlight.
 
But since it’s dark towards the end of the year, scientists have now suggested everyone over the age of one should be getting 10 micrograms of vitamin D every day to protect bone and muscle health.
 
Dr Louis Levy told BBC Radio 4: “Previously we felt that everybody would get enough from the sunlight.

“This is a change in advice, previously we have said that babies from six months to five years should have a supplement and only those people at risk of deficiency should take a supplement.

“This is new advice based on evidence looked at over the last five years.”
 
But why do men need this vitamin for good penis function? 
 
It’s because vitamin D plays a role in improving endothelial cell function and forming nitric oxide, a molecule that helps blood vessels function properly.
 
Nitric oxide allows blood vessels in the p*nis to relax which increases blood flow and causes an erection, so if there’s not enough it means getting stiff becomes a problem.
 
The blood vessels in your penis are very small, only one or two millimetres in diameter, so they can also easily get blocked by plaque caused by factors like a poor diet, lack of exercise, smoking, age or genetics.
 
Although it might be embarrassing you shouldn’t ignore penis problems because ED is typically linked to larger health problems.
 
Being unable to get hard is often a sign that your heart isn’t very healthy because poor cardiovascular health is the most common cause of ED.
 
Sometimes it’s also a symptom of health conditions like diabetes, high cholesterol or high blood pressure. It can affect anyone, either as a one-off or reoccurring problem.
 
The penis issue, which can be psychological or physical, can also be linked with fatigue, stress, anxiety or depression.
 
Speaking exclusively to Dailystar.co.uk, Dr Pixie McKenna, Superdrug’s Health and Wellbeing ambassador, said: “Research has suggested that men who have low levels of Vitamin D are more likely to suffer from impotence.

“It is important to stress that this is an association and does not imply every man with ED is vitamin D deficient or vice versa. 

“Supplementing Vitamin D may have much greater impact beyond the bedroom as emerging evidence suggests it has a protective role in everything from cancer to multiple sclerosis. So the sunshine vitamin is not just one for the boys.

“Diet alone won’t give you enough vitamin D so your resources need to be topped up through safe sun exposure or supplements.”
 
The celebrity GP added: “Your ED could be a symptom of an underlying medical issue that is yet to be diagnosed.

“If you already have a diagnosis of heart disease or diabetes make sure it is being optimally managed.

“If you haven’t had a health check for a while then book in for a screen. They are free through the NHS to the over 40s.”

King Joseph Bares His Mind On Donald Trump And His Decision In Quotes &…

King Joseph Bares His Mind On Donald Trump And His Decision In Quotes &…

Mr Adewale Joseph Olabode, otherwise known as king Joseph in the media and Nigeria Entertainment Industry on the night of 20th November, 2016 on his media platform’s twitter handle bore his mind on the United States of America’s President-elect, Donald J. Trump’s unorthodox political styles he showcased throughout the presidential campaign and often denigrated his main opponent as well as TV Hosts (the media), disabled people, Musilims, Mexicans and his decision on Immigrants.


King Joseph

The Founder/Chief Publicity Strategist at Success MEDIA Africa (a division of King Joseph Success World), who’s also a uprising Writer, Director of Production, Talents Manager, Content Provider, Project Manager, Orator, Human Rights Activist, amongst others also talks about the benefits Nigeria as a Nation stands to gain from Donald J. Trump’s decision to send Nigerians in the US back home.

In some of his tweets tonight, he lauded and analyzed Trump’s courage and his real self and lifestyles he displayed during and after the presidential campaign.

Some of the tweets (partially edited) below:

 “All of Donald Trump’s unorthodox political styles et al, which he showcased during the presidential campaign mean that he doesn’t want to play politics the usual way. I guess.” – King Joseph

“As far as I am concerned, Donald Trump seem to be too real for Hypocrites and selfish and corrupt politicians. Fact!” – King Joseph

“Donald Trump, I shall really love, appreciate you and respect your personality more if you truly would carry out your decision of sending them back home.” – King Joseph

“Donald Trump and I pray God grant you that courage to do the rightful. Send them back home, but please, safe them from deportation 😂😂

“IT IS TIME!
Nigeria needs to be fully developed. We’ve got it! We’re divinely blessed with both human and natural resources, so WTF?

King Joseph during an online interview tonight after the tweets, has this to say:

“Let them all go back home and contribute to the growth and development of their own country/continent (Nigeria/Africa) as well. Enough is enough! Sebi won nii, ile l’abo simi oko, dem wan die for foreign lands?

I want to strongly believe that, Donald Trump’s emergence as the President-elect of the United States of America is not a coincidence. And one of the reasons is to ignorantly help us as Nigerians/Africans renovate our houses, amongst other decisions that he’ll unconsciously be helping us with if we reason well as One Nation and people greatly blessed with divine intelligence, wisdom and understanding.

However, it has been revealed that, before and during the presidential campaign, king Joseph has been a close follower of Donald Trump on social media, especially facebook, twitter and instagram and has been keeping a close tab on him, but has decided to wait in expectation of him winning the election before picking up his online pen.

NIGERIANS/AFRICANS, IT IS TIME
TO WAKE UP!
TO BE WISELY SMART & ACT FAST!!
TO THINK OF SECURING OUR FUTURE NOW!!!”

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SOURCES THAT MADE US SHADOWS Pt 1. – King Joseph

Author: King Joseph
Founder/Chief Publicity Strategist Success MEDIA Africa
(a division of King Joseph Success World).
Edited By: Samuel Ayo Okoloba

Preface: sources that made us shadow literally. How the Blacks sold their birth rights.

Years of the old, Gone to those days, Africans have been blessed thoroughly with myths, legends and black magic.`

Reference: SANGO Sango, used to be a warlord, he was a legend agreed, but he lost his pride to this latter wives. Much ado with nothing.

SANGO’S FAULT
Sango married these two wives matrimonially and later married ‘Oya’ the uttermost illegally, like how? Sango’s legally wives named Obi & Orogbo, that were their names,
OBI – COLA
OROGBO – BITTER COLA

A warlord It is so much worthy talking and even to the extreme of soliloquy. Sango taught he countenanced, but the fault is he fell like an elephant troubled with an ant, the ant is the wives he married,

Sango was a hero and he had chamberlains; meaning he was a King, and then to be a king not now, Sango’s brother ought to be on the throne still, people saw Sango to be an activist and then said warlord…

Sango went to the market on the set market day and he saw a lady not just a woman because the lady was yet to get married quote: A powerful Human-like-an-animalistic being. OYA!

Likes of Sango exist still; Sango was one of the gods, so I will say “we” beings are gods but not the “GOD” Agreed.

OYA: Very beautiful, gorgeous blonde, that made Sango the warlord and a king made the choice then, but much ado without nothing.

OYA: Possessed! Animalistic Human being.
Sango fell victim by leaving in shadows, he saw it coming.

‘The story starts’ He left his chamberlains for tracing Oya’s ‘Shadows, all shadows.

Sango made it happened by getting her hooked, he walked long miles tracing OYA; OYA knew someone was tracing her Shadows, “she knew”.

OYA: Lives in the cliffs’ waterfalls Sango slept there all nights wanting to have OYA, later on’ He saw Oya coming out from the cliff hole Animalistic and still he waited, and all for shadow tracing… TO BE CONTINUED…!

NOTE: Religion, Tribalism, Racism amongst others to be discussed in Part 2of this piece – how the whites (slave masters) robbed from us (Africans) in exchange for just barbaric religions ethics and doctrines with the aim to cause more division, disunity, violence, unrest among other evil and tricky ones between the Blacks, even with just “Jigi” (Mirror). All ‘shadow.’

What a Foolish trick “We” greedily and selfishly fell for! I pray God forgives them for this crime they committed against lives. It is time to reclaim what’s rightfully ours!

I WEEP FOR MY COUNTRY- Nigeria!!
I WEEP FOR AFRICA!!!
AFRICA, STOP SHADOW CHASE!!!
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Know The Differences Between A Serious Relationship And A Fling. – King Joseph

Author: King Joseph
Language Used: NEL

Sometimes early in a relationship you may be certain that your partner is in for the long haul while your partner may simply sees it as just a fling.
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No new couple is really certain of where their relationship will lead to till after dating for sometime, then you’ll be sure if yours is going to be long-term or not.

Sometimes early in a relationship you may be sure your partner is in for the long haul while your partner simply sees it as just a fling. So how can you tell your relationship is serious or just a bit of amusement/fun for your partner?
Alison Bryant of All Women Stalk lists a few differences from a woman’s point of view:

He Makes Seeing You a Priority:

It’s fine for a couple to spend some time apart.
As a fact, it’s healthy for you to have your own interests. But your partner should make seeing you a priority at least some of the time. If he’d always rather see a game with his friends than go out with you, then he’s really not that enthused about seeing you – and it’s possible that he’s just using you to pass the time.

Meeting The Family And Friends:

Getting serious with someone means that you’ll become part of each other’s families. You’ll also have been introduced to his friends. If, however, you’ve never met his family, and distance isn’t an issue, he probably doesn’t see you as fitting in to that part of his life. And (unless his family are awful) why would someone who was serious about you want to keep you separate – from his family (I add…)?

Talking About The Future:

Can you imagine a future with your partner? Do you talk about plans together such as going on vacation, whether you want children, or buying a home? If you’ve been dating a while but he always changes the subject when you talk about the future, the signs point towards him not seeing this as a serious relationship.

Going in Vs Staying in:

I’m beyond embarrassed when I look back and think of one guy I ‘dated’. It was so clear that all he wanted was a fling, but I fooled myself into thinking it was a relationship. If all you ever do as a couple is stay in … it’s not a relationship. A fling is sexual, a relationship involves going out and doing other things together.

One Of You Has Recently Split Up With Your Ex:

While you can’t rule out the possibility that a rebound relationship might actually work, jumping into a new relationship straight after leaving another is usually a mistake. Taking time to recover from the split and working out what you want is more likely to lead to a serious relationship next time around.

He’s A Player:

Does your guy have a reputation for being a player or a flirt? You might just be the one to convert him into a long-term love…but it’s not that likely. Guys who have a series of short-term flings rarely change. A better prospect for a relationship is someone who’s has longer relationships but can also handle being single.

He’s There For You:

Finally, one crucial issue is whether he’s there for you when you need him. Flings don’t want to be bothered with emotional needs, whereas serious guys know that it’s not all fun. Guys who are serious will support you when you’re going through tough times.